V for Valentine

Every youngster’s mind is busy in thinking about their Valentine’s Day party. They all are in their own dreams. How to celebrate it? How to enjoy it? What makes it more enjoyable and memorable than before?  And I am also fall in in the same line. But now a day this day is not restricted only for the couples but it considers all those people to whom you love whether he/she is your boyfriend/girlfriend, your friend or any family member. Happy Valentine’s Day to all my beloved. You are a part of my life and I love you all for making my life so beautiful.

A part from this, I wanted to give tribute to our legends Bhagat singh, Sukhdev & Rajyaguru which was hanged on the same day in 1931 in Lahore. I wanted to say we all love you for all the sacrifices made by you, so that today we are able to celebrate festival of love on the same day… And you deserve the first wish from us. Our love for you will never fed away. Not only these 3 legends but many legends who sacrifices their lives, their families, their love, their desire for our nation till date is the person who deserves first wish on this day…. Happy Valentine’s Day to great legendary of our country.

Many are missing.......

Love is in the air in form of Sacrifices, Remembrance, Proud and Respect………  

YOU WERE MY BEST FRIEND…..

When you think a word “FRIEND” it gives you lots of memory running into your mind. Friend, with whom you shared a memory of your life and when it joins the other word “BEST” you live it with that person by just sharing your excitement or thrill again and again when you miss those memories or you live with it that particular moment. You won’t have feared what he/she will think about your stupidity/ your character/ your emotions. But what makes you feel that best friend is now goes into category of “You were my best friend…”

When that friend started taking you granted. When you realize that friend was talking to you for their shake or just to show off others. When you start understanding the thing behind his/her every action. When that friend started ignoring you for someone else. When that friend cut your call after hearing your voice. When you were most excited to wish him/her for any best wishes and he didn't even bother to reply you back.  When in his/her worst mood you are there to listen his/her all the rubbish talks and now he/she is busy without any reason. He/she started binding you in time limits to chat or call.  It doesn't mean to have you visible in your life for every second but it’s his/her presence you feel in each and every moment of your life. Think once before you say you are my best friend as it’s easy to say. Best friend is not only for a particular phase of your life but it is for every phase of your life after entering into your life.  When you realize it is not making any difference if that particular person is in your life or not, you must give the best gift to him/her in this New Year though it has past almost 10 days in this year. But nothing is called late when you start realizing that person is waste of your time in your life. Just smile, last time cherish the moment you spent together and said you are my best friend and move on. You might think 100 times before doing this but once you do it really you won’t regret it.

Yes I think 1000 times and now I am sure whom I want permanently in my life with a best friend tag and would like to say good bye to those who doesn't worth it. If my final goodbye makes any difference in your life you can still have a chance to be a friend once again but if not then better to be apart. Hoping to you respect the tag  “You were my best friend…”

Motivation for “OWN” self

Everyone passes from the phase when he/she requires motivation. But what motivation works for particular individual is too difficult to understand. As every time different tool is useful to motivate a same human being. We always try to motivate others in their difficult times and many of us are good in that but when it comes to oneself we find others to give us motivation.  But no other person is best except you to motivate yourself. You are the one who knows your best and worst part. Even you know what makes you feel charged up or down. Self motivation is the best motivation. And so you are the best motivator for yourself. So, why we require others? Only you can make a change in your life. Your personality, behaviour and attitude belong to you and reflect only to your life. So, start from today, motivate yourself. Change your life.

“You will never accomplish anything if you don’t believe that you can do it.” 

“A long way to go”

When we talk about a journey of life or success, we always used to say “its long way to go.” But what is the meaning of that “Long Way?” Is it a days to get success or days of sustain after getting success? On the first thought we always think to get success but have we ever thought it is applicable to sustain as a successful as well. A success may be achieved in a shorter or longer time. But to sustain as a successful is always take longer time and longer path. 

We can take example of Our Master Blaster in the field of Cricket “Sachin Tendulkar”. He had started his career at the age of 16 in 1989, against Pakistan in karachi and he was the youngest player. He got successful entry in the Indian cricket team in 16 yrs. Where as he sustain in this field for 24 yrs. which is longer journey then to get be in the team. 

So, to get success we defiantly do our best and have to work hard but after getting success we have to work harder. As per my view, to sustain as a successful is more long way to go as compare to get success. So, work hard and sustain. As rightly said, “Don’t try to be only hero, try to be be the legend as heroes are remembered but legend never dies.”

Your views, my appreciation. 

Evil V/S Good

Every coin has two side, its universally accepted fact. Each one of us also agrees upon it. But why we always hesitate to accept our bad side, our mistakes. And that is the reason we are stopping our growth. Evil is a bad side of ours and other, start accepting both side of a person it may be yours or others. It happens many a times that we dislike if someone point out our fault or bad habits. But if you start accepting it and try to come out of it you can grow and reach to a height of success.

In real life, it is hard to determine which is good and which is evil. Because if something is good for me, the same thing may be evil for other. It varies person to person, their thinking and their perception. So, you are the only one who can judge your action and thoughts, not others. We can see the example of the battle of Mahabharata, as the same battle Lord Krishna thinks it’s a Good deed which Pandavas are doing as it is for the justice, respect and for the nation. But on the other side, Arjun and other Pandavas is thinking it is bad deed. As battle is in front of their brothers, respectable elders, Gurus and their relatives.

Choice is yours……

A THOUGHT ON “WHAT A THOUGHT?”

One day a thought come on mind, when we read something from web, book or any damn thing; we don’t like each and every thing written in it “WHY?” Is there anything which is not written properly? And that’s the reason we do not like it or any other reason is there? It might be wrong. So, when we feel to say “WHAT A THOUGHT?”  Yes, that’s depends on your “CHOICE or INTEREST”, that makes you different from others. If you are interested in something you like to read that kind of thing. It may be new science inventions, new novels, new poems, new technologies, political reforms or changes across globe, Photography etc… In all this things people have different opinions for a particular one thing. And again a question is “WHY?” It depends on understanding or perception of person. This is different from person to person. So, think before you think, Ahaaaaa, “What a Thought?” as it’s a reflation of your choice perception and thinking.

Keep reading…. Keep thinking….. And “Be the best version of You”