Saturday, 9 January 2016

YOU WERE MY BEST FRIEND…..

When you think a word “FRIEND” it gives you lots of memory running into your mind. Friend, with whom you shared a memory of your life and when it joins the other word “BEST” you live it with that person by just sharing your excitement or thrill again and again when you miss those memories or you live with it that particular moment. You won’t have feared what he/she will think about your stupidity/ your character/ your emotions. But what makes you feel that best friend is now goes into category of “You were my best friend…”


When that friend started taking you granted. When you realize that friend was talking to you for their shake or just to show off others. When you start understanding the thing behind his/her every action. When that friend started ignoring you for someone else. When that friend cut your call after hearing your voice. When you were most excited to wish him/her for any best wishes and he didn't even bother to reply you back.  When in his/her worst mood you are there to listen his/her all the rubbish talks and now he/she is busy without any reason. He/she started binding you in time limits to chat or call.  It doesn't mean to have you visible in your life for every second but it’s his/her presence you feel in each and every moment of your life. Think once before you say you are my best friend as it’s easy to say. Best friend is not only for a particular phase of your life but it is for every phase of your life after entering into your life.  When you realize it is not making any difference if that particular person is in your life or not, you must give the best gift to him/her in this New Year though it has past almost 10 days in this year. But nothing is called late when you start realizing that person is waste of your time in your life. Just smile, last time cherish the moment you spent together and said you are my best friend and move on. You might think 100 times before doing this but once you do it really you won’t regret it.


Yes I think 1000 times and now I am sure whom I want permanently in my life with a best friend tag and would like to say good bye to those who doesn't worth it. If my final goodbye makes any difference in your life you can still have a chance to be a friend once again but if not then better to be apart. Hoping to you respect the tag  “You were my best friend…”