When you think a word “FRIEND” it gives you lots of memory running
into your mind. Friend, with whom you shared a memory of your life and when it
joins the other word “BEST” you live it with that person by just sharing your
excitement or thrill again and again when you miss those memories or you live
with it that particular moment. You won’t have feared what he/she will think
about your stupidity/ your character/ your emotions. But what makes you feel
that best friend is now goes into category of “You were my best friend…”
When that friend started taking you granted. When you realize that
friend was talking to you for their shake or just to show off others. When you
start understanding the thing behind his/her every action. When that friend
started ignoring you for someone else. When that friend cut your call after hearing
your voice. When you were most excited to wish him/her for any best wishes and
he didn't even bother to reply you back. When in his/her worst mood you are there to
listen his/her all the rubbish talks and now he/she is busy without any reason.
He/she started binding you in time limits to chat or call. It doesn't mean to have you visible in your
life for every second but it’s his/her presence you feel in each and every
moment of your life. Think once before you say you are my best friend as it’s
easy to say. Best friend is not only for a particular phase of your life but it
is for every phase of your life after entering into your life. When you realize it is not making any difference
if that particular person is in your life or not, you must give the best gift
to him/her in this New Year though it has past almost 10 days in this year. But
nothing is called late when you start realizing that person is waste of your
time in your life. Just smile, last time cherish the moment you spent together and
said you are my best friend and move on. You might think 100 times before doing
this but once you do it really you won’t regret it.
Yes I think 1000 times and now I am sure whom I want permanently
in my life with a best friend tag and would like to say good bye to those who
doesn't worth it. If my final goodbye makes any difference in your life you can
still have a chance to be a friend once again but if not then better to be apart.
Hoping to you respect the tag “You were
my best friend…”